I’ve spent a great deal writing about dating for Ladies Again, but I knew that eventually I would have to move on to explore greener pastures once I finally sailed into the long-term dating seas. It seems like the moons aligned and I have finally started to date someone that I like very much–and he also likes me very much in return. Fancy that happening! So onward we sail.
Now that I’m dating someone special, I will have to push my first-date skills to the side, and develop a new set of skills. I should mention that I did date someone for many years ages ago, so that experience allowed me to learn a number of things about relationships. First, a person should never stop working to impress their spouse. Just because a person is in a relationship does not mean that they can get comfortable and gradually stop exercising, applying makeup or continuing their grooming habits. Second, and most importantly, a person should also work to find ways to show their spouse that they care about their well-being and happiness. Whether it be bringing them flowers, surprising them with gifts, or cooking them meals, there are a number of ways to show a spouse that you are lucky to have them in your life.
One great way to show a spouse that you care about their health and well-being is to give them a great full-body massage. A massage is an intimate, loving way to both surprise your mate and tend to their physical and mental well-being. Massages lower stress cortisol, improve circulation and loosen tight muscles. Any woman who can learn basic massaging techniques is a smart woman because doing so will give her an advantage over other women who are not aware of the calming and healing power of the massage. A man will cherish and love a woman who takes the time to make sure that her man is cared for and relaxed.
Grab some massage oil and get ready to give a great massage. Here’s a few techniques that every woman should know:
Learn Swedish Style
Swedish massage therapy is geared to relax the entire body. In this style of massage, this is accomplished by rubbing the muscles with long gliding strokes in the direction of blood returning to the heart. Think of massaging in long, slow strokes across the body.
Try Therapeutic Style
There are certain aspects of the body that are sore from overuse and improper form, and therapeutic massages are particularly helpful for certain tight areas of the body. With deep tissue massage, focus on the deepest layers of muscle tissue, tendons and fascia (the protective layer surrounding muscles, bones and joints). Therapeutic massages are great for men who are prone to straining their neck to stare at computer devices. If you want to give your man a treat after work, knead your thumbs into his neck and shoulders to get out the tight kinks.
Focus on Tight Areas
If you are short on time, focus on areas of the body that are overused and stressed from repetitive and often aggressive movements. Try massaging the shoulders, lower back, knees, buttocks and hands.
Massage the Scalp
Everyone loves a great scalp massage, if you don’t believe that, then you’ve never had a decent scalp massage. Get the blood flowing to the scalp by rubbing the scalp in slow and circular motions.
What are your massage techniques? Share in the comments below.
Author: Lilac Blue
Lilac Blue is writes about femininity, love and family in a world that has been drastically altered by industrialization, secularism, misandry and misogyny.