There Are No Ugly Women, Just Lazy Ones

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I like to live on the edge sometimes by doing tasks at the very last minute. Boredom scares me, so I have a habit of jam-packing my schedule with too many activities. I end up rushing through a lot of tasks just to finish all of the projects I started. As a consequence of this line of thinking, I struggle to look presentable on a regular basis. I want to sleep in as long as possible, so I wake up 30 to 40 minutes before I need to begin my commute. I end up trying to toast waffles while I’m brushing my teeth. I get to the office on time (some days), but I don’t look nearly as presentable and glamorous as I would like to be. Occasionally, when I arrive at work, I notice that my shirt is wrinkled, my hair is messier than it should be, and there is not a stitch of makeup on my face. Not sexy.

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This woman is gorgeous because she makes the effort.

It’s been said that there are no ugly women, just lazy ones. If I look rushed and disheveled, it is because I did not set aside the time needed to look my best. But there is hope! My inability to pull it together before I leave the house is not a poor reflection on my character; it just means that I need to work harder to refine and improve my morning routine. Some of you may also struggle with getting out the door as well. In the end, what can we do to change our behavior so that we appear more polished every day?

First, accept that you are not perfect. You may perform well in one area of your life and be disorganized in another. A person high in openness may be low in neuroticism. I am a very organized person at work and at home, but I struggle with punctuality. Knowing this about myself, I know that it is unlikely that I will magically wake up two hours before work to beautify myself. Try not to be hard on yourself. Understand your strengths and weaknesses.

Second, once you figure out your strengths and weaknesses, find ways to work around your shortcomings. I understand that I am not a morning person. To make up for that, I recently started laying out my clothes the night before, deciding in advance how my shirts will match my pants and shoes. I also select my accessories at night. By doing this, I save time in the morning and I know when I get to work that my outfit looks presentable and professional. I also have time to iron my clothes properly at night, so I do not have to rush in the morning! Others save time in the morning by preparing breakfast foods at night.

Third, understand that patience is a virtue. When it comes to being presentable, some things, such as doing one’s hair or selecting clothes for the day, should not be rushed. It sounds crazy, but I prefer to do my makeup a little later after I leave the house, like at work, so that I do not rush through applying my makeup. By doing it a little bit later in the morning, I know that I am fully awake and can dedicate time to applying my makeup carefully. There are great workarounds for looking fabulous: If you can’t do your makeup at home, bring a small makeup with you; If you can’t do your hair in the morning, bring your hair materials with you. Keep your heels in the trunk of your car if you need to do so.

How do you maintain a polished look every day? Share your tips below!

Author: Lilac Blue

Lilac Blue is writes about femininity, love and family in a world that has been drastically altered by industrialization, secularism, misandry and misogyny.

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